There is a website called forevermissed.com that functions as an online memorial for people who have passed away. Upon entering the website, the first thing to see are the large words “create a memorial website”. It then gives the user the option to enter a first name and a last name before clicking a large button reading “get started”. The background of the website is sky blue, with doves flying on the top of the screen, signifying the dead ascending to the afterlife. On the bottom background of the screen is a peaceful scene of a tree in a pasture in front of small mountains. The website goes for a peaceful feel and atmosphere, using lighter colors toward the top of the screen to give the impression of hope in the afterlife.
The website about section has a few paragraphs from the creator of the website talking about his inspiration for undertaking the project. Having never met his grandparents, Oleg Andelman, decided to create an online system for people to archive their lost loved-ones so that they will never be lost from memory like his grandparents were. The site gives the user control over various themes to use for the background of the memorial as well as any music desired for the background. Once a memorial is made, there are options to add life stories, history, testimonies, tributes, and “candles” to the website. The administrator can make it possible for visitors to add tributes or can make the memorial closed to outside visitors.
Unlike physical memorials, this online memorial makes it possible for any person to access the memorial regardless of geographical location or convenience. It also makes the process of paying tribute much simpler and widely accessible. However, the physical presence of family members and friends adds a different level of personal interaction with the memory of the passed. Also, the ease of ability to pay tribute, makes the level of tribute similar to a simple post on Facebook. The time and effort required to pay respects in physical memorials makes the gesture much more meaningful. If tribute is as easily payed as just pressing a few buttons, then the gesture loses meaning.








